I think this sort of "discussion" is probably symptomatic of some legitimate issues with the operation of HeroCraft. Once more, respect for the staff, but if everything ran buttersmooth I doubt we'd see anything that troubled a person long enough to write an essay on the event, which then proceeded to attract this much attention and lols. I'm probably not covering everything that contributed to this, and it may just be the personalities clashing, but I've felt the effects of some problems in the same vein, and I get the feeling they aren't just freak accidents.
Ze Rules apparently are not being advertised well enough, and more than a few restrict the way you play the game even where it wouldn't be problematic on other servers, and there's no way to systematically to prevent or detect the transgression. And this can lead to incrementally-increasing frustration and confusion. Even... threads dedicated to it.
People should be rational and reasonable and tolerant of a little noise, but you can't do much to fix that, particularly on the internet. The best cure for it is for the average player to take it upon themselves to be the better man. To expect criticism, expect misunderstandings, expect complaints, but not to instigate or perpetuate them. To expect sarcasm and rage and trolls and excessive profanity and entitlement without precedent and arrogance, but not to add to it. And maybe somebody else will get with the program. That's all that can be done.
In the end, it IS a game. It's not worth the gravity people tend to give it. Shut up and have fun, why don't ye?