I do not own that server, rather I am the head admin for it. Yes, we are still running, however at times (as I'm sure you understand,) I need to get away from every moment of my gametime being filled with endless questions and problems. I have no interest whatsoever in taking any ideas from your server, and if ever you feel that our trust has been breached you are welcome to ban me. I would not want players doing that on our server either.
The only way that server effects me is that I will not vote for your server over ours, however only one of the voting sites is shared, so it is hardly a problem.
I started playing on this server this morning, after some of our players tried it out and convinced me that it's a ton of fun. Lo and behold it is, and I really look forward to my time spent here. I'm hoping to become a mystic soon, and love that it's a big change from FTB.
I will happily answer any more questions you may have =)
~Jekka